I've been adjusting to retirement. Twenty-five years as a mental health and substance abuse counselor. Keeps you busy. Unfortunately, there was always plenty of work. What can happen to people hasn't changed so much over the years, but the environment surrounding the counseling business has. I was trained as a family therapist, which was somewhat unusual for the time. When I went to graduate school, there were only two in the country certified as family therapy training programs. My style was to go slow, take the time I needed, and by the end of the session, hopefully I was able to change something about how the individual, couple, or family, were handling the situation. I my be ten minutes with them, or two hours. Today, it's all about speed and how many people you can see in a day, or week. Praises come from high productivity and how fancy you can make computer generated goals and objectives, most templated to fit some accrediting or managed care agencies idea of what it is you should be doing. There is no time to teach or supervise the younger, less experienced counselors. I think management is worried about what you might say to them concerning todays priorities. For me, it became all show and no talent. Emphasis moved away from the clients and settled on the amount of money you can generate. Of course you need to make money, but no one is left to measure that against your mission, which I continue to believe, perhaps mistakenly, is to do everything we can, in any way, shape, or form, with ability to pay or not, to help people who are having difficulties with their lives. Maybe the times passed me by. Maybe the old school is not compatible with the new one. Whatever the case, I don't regret retiring. I would rather struggle with what to do with my time than to wake up at night worrying that I didn't have enough time to convince my client that living is more worthwhile than killing yourself, or staying married, while difficult, is in the long run a valuable lesson about life, intimacy, and love. I can definitely sleep better.
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